Instead of saying “Don’t run,” try “Please walk.” Why? Because the brain must first visualize the action before it can stop it. Positive directions help children process instructions faster and with less emotional resistance.
Collaborative for Children is committed to helping families raise emotionally intelligent, resilient children. Our parenting resources are grounded in neuroscience and designed to support early childhood development from birth to age five.
Neuroscience shows that children’s brains are still developing key pathways for self-regulation and decision-making. When parents use positive language, it:
– Activates the brain’s prefrontal cortex (responsible for reasoning)
– Reduces stress and emotional overload
– Encourages cooperation and trust
This approach is especially effective in child care centers of excellence, where educators are trained to use certified ECE curriculum and positive communication strategies.
