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Parenting isn’t just about rules, it’s about relationships. In our latest video, Parenting Tips – Neuroscience and Emotional Regulation, Collaborative for Children reveals how small shifts in how we respond to our children can have a big impact on their emotional development.
Instead of defaulting to “no,” neuroscience encourages parents to pause, connect, and co-regulate. These strategies help children build emotional resilience and strengthen the parent-child bond.
Children’s brains are still developing, especially in the early years. When a child is overwhelmed, they rely on adults to help them calm down. This process is called co-regulation and it’s the foundation of emotional intelligence.
Collaborative for Children teaches parents how to:
– Recognize emotional triggers
– Respond with empathy instead of control
– Use calming language and body cues
– Create space for emotional expression
Research in child development shows that the brain is shaped by relationships. When parents respond with warmth and consistency, children develop stronger neural pathways for self-regulation, problem-solving, and empathy.
This is especially important in the first five years, when the brain is most adaptable. Collaborative for Children’s parenting tips are grounded in neuroscience and designed to support whole-child development.
The video encourages parents to rethink how they say “no.” Instead of shutting down a child’s request, try:
– “Tell me more about what you’re thinking.”
– “Let’s figure out a way to make this work.”
– “I hear you. Let’s talk about it.”
This approach doesn’t mean giving in. Instead, it means connecting first, then guiding behavior. It builds trust and teaches children how to manage disappointment and frustration.
Emotional regulation is a child’s ability to manage their feelings and behaviors. It starts with co-regulation—when adults help children calm down and feel safe.
Neuroscience shows that responsive, empathetic parenting strengthens brain development and emotional resilience in children.
Yes! We offer coaching, workshops, and resources to help parents navigate emotional regulation, behavior, and learning at home.
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